Do you cross all of your "t's,"dot all of your "i's" and then go back to check your work? Are you careful to always use proper grammar even in short notes to yourself? Do people get impatient because you give detailed answers and expect details from others? Are you an engineer, architect or scientist? Are you an unapologetic conservative Republican and Born Again Christian? Do you love cats? If you answered yes to these questions, then read on, you might have an interest in my posting. If you answered no, to even one of those questions, we will NOT get along, so move on. I am seeking Mr. Right, not left and not middle-of-the-road.


Hi, I am 41 years old, divorced and have a 19 year old son who is in college (engineering) and does not live with me. I have a 5 year old Himalayan who does live with me and is a very big part of my life. I do not smoke, or drink very often. I own several very small business ( Ergonomic Consulting, Personal Training, Real Estate License Tutoring, a Real Estate rental Co. to rent out a room at my condo) and work for another company as well. I am a conservative Republican, and Born-again Christian. I would describe my moral beliefs toward the human body as being Victorian. I am very fiscally conservative both out of necessity and philosophy.


I went to e-Harmony, but they told me they had no matches for me. To be very honest, many of the terms that describe me the best are usually used to describe men. I am independent, self-assured, tenacious about solving problems (This is why I am an ergonomist), persistent, physically and mentally strong, enjoy challenges. I do not not shy away from confrontation when others disagree with how I feel or think. I tend to be direct and honest when expressing thoughts and feelings. I enjoy math, science, engineering, architecture and was a classical guitarist--until a hand injury caused me to change majors from guitar performance to ergonomics. I believe that work and career are very important and it is my work and career aspirations that define me as a person. I am not child-oriented.


I am looking for a like-minded (see paragraph #1), 40 - 55 year old gentleman who loves cats, does not have a minor child, and enjoys his work. He must not be a smoker or allow alcohol to overcome him. We must have similar interests and faith in God and Country. His primary interest in me must be for my gray matter. Send me an e-mail telling me about yourself. I look forward to hearing from you.