Why is it so hard to find a guy that has some respect for them self and not looking for just sex,hook ups,quick blow jobs,quick pounding and etc.... is there not anybody looking to meet go out on a date get to know each other. am I the only one that is looking for this or what. No wonder the HIV is so high. and if this is what being gay is all about I guess I will just play it safe and wack my own meat and be single.